6 BEST TRICKS TO MASTER THE ART OF SEXTING
Never before has sexting been so relevant. Surrey Escorts Agency truly understands that as the COVID-19 lockdown continues, many of us are adapting to life away from our partners for the time being. And those on dating apps are having forgo planning a date for digital-based alternatives. Which means that if you’re feeling sexual frustration at the moment, you’re not alone. But there is a way to stay intimate with your partner and gain a sense of continued connection: sexting.
Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or you’re just starting something new, sending flirty, dirty messages is a great way to spice things up and keep things fresh—the question is, how can you do it effectively?
Listed below are the 6 best tricks to master the art of sexting by Surrey Escorts Agency
TIMING IS EVERYTHING
Sexting is similar to actual sex in the sense that you need to be in the mood. There’s no point trying to start an x-rated conversation at midday if you know your partner has a conference call in an hour, or they’re sitting down for dinner with their family.
If you’re not sure what your partner is up to, then ask. Sending a simple ‘Are you busy?’ text will help you figure out if now is a good time or ascertain when might be better.
DON’T RACE AHEAD
The thing about sexting is that the longer it goes on for, the more of an impact it is going to have on the arousal of the two people involved. Sexting is all about the build up, so begin the conversation with an opening that indicates you’re ready to play without revealing too much.
Engage in some digital foreplay if you will, perhaps begin by sending a suggestive selfie or letting them know you’ve been thinking about them. Gradually build as you go, taking time to linger on each step; you don’t even need to start openly talking about sex until a few messages in.
If you’re initiating the sexting conversation then remember that you are in control and, in effect, playing a role.
Your words, photos, and voice messages can all be used to create a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction, however you need to keep the conversation moving and lead the other person.
They will likely be playing off your mood as the instigator after all.
STATE BALANCE BETWEEN PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AND FANTASIES
If you’re texting a partner than it’s likely you have lots of steamy sessions in the bank that you can refer to, so use these. Don’t give yourself extra work to do, particularly if you find sexting doesn’t come naturally, by adding in all sorts of new moves. Your partner wants to feel that they are texting the person they know and love, and that your past experiences together turn you on.
If you’re sexting someone you don’t know well, or are yet to have sex with, then make sure you don’t go too far with your imaginings. It’s all-too-easy to get carried away over text, but you don’t want to give the other person a false impression of what they might expect if and when you do get together down the line. Not only does this put unnecessary pressure on you, it can also leave you feel overly-vulnerable or uncomfortable about their expectations, when the time does come around.
TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES, TOO
If you do feel comfortable sexting then it can be the perfect opportunity to put your fantasies out there because there’s less pressure when no one’s staring back at you. Plus, many of us might struggle to open up about our sexual fantasies but feeling them out in a ‘make-believe’ setting can help you determine what you want and how the other person might feel about them.
ASK QUESTIONS AND HAVE FUN WITH IT
Don’t be afraid to ask your partner questions during sexting, it’s a conversation, after all. Asking sexy questions can be an easy way for you to know what your partner is thinking. The questions can also assist you in painting a vivid image of their fantasies within their imagination. Plus, asking a question is also a great way to keep things going if you feel you are struggling to find things to say or feel uncomfortable about revealing too much.
Try out one of these sexting examples to get you started: What part of me do you want to see? Are you turned on right now? What is your fantasy? How would you like me to turn you on?
Last but not least, sexting is a form of teasing where you hold the power. Heat it up!
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