10 HOT TIPS TO MAKE A CONVO ON DATING APPS
When it comes to dating apps, it’s all about finding the best dating app conversation starter. Unlike meeting in real life, you can’t really win someone over with your personality until you can find the right words to pique their interest and lure them in for more. In order to do that, you need an initial line that’s going to deliver.
What we advise to do is to follow the formula of Comment + Question. Comment on something you see in their profile that intrigues you, then ask a question that requires more than a yes/no response. While you can have some luck with the Master of None, “I’m going to Whole Foods, can I pick something up for you?” cut and paste style messages, we have a higher response rate with individualized messages. It doesn’t have to be a novel, just honestly respond to the thing that made you swipe right. To tap more into details,
These are the 10 hot tips and tricks to make a convo on a dating app based on Surrey Escorts Agency
DON’T JUST “HEEEY”
You need to grab the other person’s attention. Anyone can message “Heyyy” or send a GIF. Make them remember you. If you’re confident, send something funny or a bit risque. Just don’t be an everyman that’s just going to disappear into a list of matches never to be seen again.
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE
Don’t be that person that waits for someone else to message you first—chances are they’re doing the same thing too and they won’t bother. There’s a reason you swiped right. Tell them! Mostly men like confident girls who don’t wait to message first—it’s ballsy. Drop your match a quick message, what have you got to lose?
GO FOR OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS
These kind of questions invite more than a yes-or-no answer, or ones that make someone want to talk about themselves. A few good ones:
“You ran the Chicago Marathon?! How hard was that?!” or “A drummer! Is that a side gig or just a cool hobby?”
START WITH A COMPLIMENT
Open with a compliment—pick out something you like about their photos to show you’ve actually looked at them. Stuff that people put effort into, like their hair or dress sense. It is a good start if you’re looking to ego trip your way to some nudes.
IF THEY’VE INCLUDED OBVIOUS HINTS IN THEIR BIOS OR PHOTOS, TALK ABOUT THEM
If you match with someone who has four photos of them and a dog, just tell them you love the dog okay?!
DO NOT INCLUDE THEIR NAME IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE
“What’s up, Hayley?” is just way too upfront and a bit creepy. We know that it’s nice that you’ve noticed their name and bothered to use it, but it’s just a bit much. Wait until you’re a bit further in before you get personal.
BE SIMPLE, AND STRAIGHT TO THE POINT
Nine times out of ten they won’t rate cheesy gifs or weird chat up lines, just get straight into a nice and flowing convo. Ask how their day was or if they have plans for the weekend—it’s really not difficult. Then after establishing a bit of chat, the convo can get more interesting. Just sometimes a sext at 10am from a random Tinder match just isn’t needed.
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IN-APP FEATURES FOR A BETTER CONVERSATION STARTER
Many people forget that the app has its own features that make it easier for people to connect. Check out a match’s embedded Spotify playlist or latest Instagram post. And no, it’s not creepy to do! People spend a lot of time thinking, “what do I say about myself?” and they’re putting it out there publicly”. So don’t be silly—use it.
Go with something like:
“I saw The Smiths on your playlist, a bit old school, but I dig that too! Have you seen them live?”
IT’S OKAY TO TEASE THEM A BIT
There are plenty of people on dating apps sending “Hey” and “Hi” messages, which is why yours could be easily overlooked. We suggest you to make your first message stand out. Teasing someone is a great way to differentiate yourself. Those of you who are naturally sarcastic might have to be careful with this one. The teases should still express interest and come off as playful and flirty—not judgmental.
Pick on details like:
“You don’t watch Money Heist? Ugh, let’s talk!”
PROVE YOUR MESSAGE ISN’T BEING SENT TO EVERYONE
Make reference to their bio or something on their profile—show you’re paying attention and it’s not just a copy paste job that you’ve sent to every match. The worst kind of Tinder first lines are the ones you can tell have been recycled a million times.
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