Are you interested in becoming an escort? Do you think you have what it takes but don’t know where to start?
The first thing you need to do is be able to ask yourself if escorting is for you? There are a lot of women who are sexually liberated and very open minded however after escorting once or twice they can’t handle some of the situations they encounter. But there are some who you would assume due to their weak characters, would not be able to handle the stronger characters… and they end up being the ones who are the most successful and happiest with their decision. With that being said it’s not something that any one else can decide for you, the best thing you can do is picture yourself in different situations and imagine how you’d react to them. If you make a fully educated decision to go ahead with being an escort, and it doesn’t work out – hey, you tried. That’s OK.
I think most are shocked at the different types of women who became escorts or considered being an escort. They are your best friend, your daughter, your mother, your cousin, that girl you went to school with etc. Escorts are not drug addicts, they are not all people who were sexually abused, and they are not head cases. There are a lot of empowered and self confident women who take to escorting for a variety of reasons.
Our first question was how you become an escort. It’s not exactly the kind of job you see advertised on a careers website. Now a day it easy, all escort agencies have a “job”, “work with us” section with dummy proof application forms to fill out and upload photos. In the Independent escort world, you have to be a little more business savvy. Understanding the important of marketing, promotions, target audience, etc. it should be treated like any other business. Social media plays a huge part in marketing yourself and your services.
“It wasn’t always glamorous. I have met the odd smelly fat guy with bad BO or bad breath. They actually weren’t horrible people when I met them, they were very nice, they just didn’t have my level of personal hygiene!”
“I wanted to get on the property ladder, but even with my own business I couldn’t afford it. A few friends had tried escorting and it seemed like easy money. I’m very liberal sexually and when my relationship ended I became quite promiscuous, so I thought, “Why not get paid for it?”
“It made me disassociate sex with emotions and I’m scared I will never have a proper relationship anymore.”
“I don’t fit a stereotypical image of a sex worker; I’m not a drug addict and I didn’t have a bad childhood. When I decided to start escorting, I was actually a young professional living in the big city.”
What works for you may not work for others, but lets not be judgmental… …live and let live!